Asking a girl out is not much concerned with the activity for which you are planning to invite her out instead it is more concerned with what she thinks regarding the extent of fun that she will have when you are with her. Therefore, following are few ways that will pose you as an attractive guy with whom she will have fun in hanging out and so will happily hangout with you despite having plans already.
The Process of Asking A Women Out:
The main reason the girls hangout with guys (who ask them boldly) is for fun as you do go on a date to enjoy. Read up this tao of badass review to learn more. So while you are asking a girl out, if she senses that you are quite boring, serious or socially awkward, no matter where or what for you are inviting her, she will naturally assume it as an unpleasant experience.
Therefore, the second you meet up a girl, immediately focus on having pleasurable time with her instead of trying to know about her because you will automatically get to know her when you will spend time with her. You should adopt a playful attitude like teasing, laughing and smiles right from the beginning.
Why most guys fail to get a date:
No matter if you are successful, fearless and confident but if you approach her by asking some serious questions and strive to make her your girlfriend immediately then you will surely fail because her mind with show her red flags and will dump you in the category of serious guys. So avoid doing this.
Though that certainly does not mean that the topics of school, work and age (interviewing questions) cannot be discussed, you can discuss them but briefly. If she asks you such questions answer them briefly and then switch on to some other topic which is more interesting.
After gaining perfection in attracting girls you don’t need to chase girls as they will automatically come to you. When a girl chases you instead of you chasing her, you are more relaxed and do have a pleasurable time because you do not have to concentrate on what should be done next.
So what attracts people and more specifically girls?
Uniqueness! If you do not have anything especial or unique from the remaining, you will not be noticed by anyone. Therefore instead of being like others, differentiate yourself from everyone else by behaving or looking slightly differently.
Be a leader:
If you are a follower of someone it is not only boring but it also displays your personality. It indicates that you are afraid of trying new thing and are not interested in getting attention. But that does not mean that you get yourself dressed in bright yellow or orange color instead something interesting should be added to your physical appearance. Following are the guidelines to make your more attractive without looking like a fool.
Becoming More Attractive:
First consider the place you are setting in for. For example if it’s a club and people there are dressed in expensive clothing then you must wear some cheap clothing as it will automatically highlight you as guy who least care about it and will pose you very attractive.
Whereas, if you are going to a place where people are informally dressed then you must get dressed a little bit more and automatically you will be highlighted as the only classy guy at that place.
Usually clothes themselves are enough to make you attractive but accessories can further increase up your attraction. Something different and unique that may represent you will prove to be an ideal like wearing a necklace or bracelet with car or its monogram on it displaying you enjoy driving.
External References:
http://edition.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/04/13/o.laws.of.sex.attraction/
